Be a World Changer

March 2nd, 2010

I just spent an hour with a group of people whom I have come to appreciate though have never spoken to any of them face to face or never shaken their hand.  We are all members of the Focus Society Mastermind and attend the weekly Webinar series hosted by the Focus Society that is teaching us how to Build Our Business From Scratch.

There are two reasons why I am blogging about this:

First, for any who want to build a business or have a business that they are trying to improve, this is a group of people you need to meet and a place you need to go on a regular basis.  I could say a lot more and give you the big sales pitch but I won’t.  If business building rings your bell, go and see what this group offers and find out for yourself why you need to be part.  Here is a link when you are ready:

Business Building Webinar Series

Second, and more importantly, tonight one of the presenters, Brad Parler, showed a video that captured the spirit of what this group is all about and which captures the heart of many of us who really want to see things in the world change.  Whether change looks like people making more cash, becoming healthier, more satisfied, helping others grow and learn, or just becoming who they are supposed to be, this video is an encouragement and a reminder.  That he could take it off YouTube and play it over a webinar was also pretty cool.

Here’s the video.  Enjoy.  Be encouraged.  Live your dream!

Entrepreneurs Can Change the World

Blessings,

Dr Jon

Knowledge vs. Life

December 16th, 2009

I recently enjoyed perusing and making the occasional comment on a forum for Christian Naturists. This is a fascinating website for seldom do I find people so open and caring, though that should be expected with this group since they are already loving themselves enough to be naked and unashamed where appropriate and have realized that this was Father’s original intent and is honoring to Him. So honoring themselves and others openly comes naturally.

In one of the topics discussed the issue of clothes given Adam and Eve got very scholarly and analytical of words and meanings of words and at one point I commented that we put too much emphasis on Knowledge and not enough on just living, being like children living in the shadow of a loving Father.  I was taken to task for the seemingly “anti-knowledge” comment and thought rather than approaching a reply from an intellectual angle, a story would be more helpful.  At first I thought to just drop the whole thing where it lay but this really goes to the heart of our purpose on the planet, as persons and as believers, so is worth some thought.  I also thought writing the story on my blog offered more space and more freedom for others to read it.  Entering forums can be a logistical task for some and others may not want to hang around a Naturist site, Christian or not – though it would no doubt be worth your time and a growing experience.  A link on the forum to here will make it available to readers and friends there.

So here is the story:

Once upon a time a man gave his son a home and all the resources needed to maintain it and to live comfortably for the remainder of his life.  This gift was the result of years of this man’s time, attention and energy and he knew every crack and cranny of the property and how everything worked.  He could sense, before it happened, if anything was about to go wrong or need fixing.  His intent in giving his son the property was to draw this son into the same kind of intensely personal relationship with him that he had with the property.  He wanted his son to be so connected to him that their every move would be in tandem.  He wanted his son to grow to the point that the vision for the future development and purpose for this property would become a part of his son’s life, become his son’s focus as well.  He wanted to pour every aspect of his life into his son and totally and completely reproduce himself in his son to that point that they became a team that moved almost as one entity and would be a thing of beauty to anyone watching from without.

But he was pretty smart and gave his son a choice:  let me tell you everything about this property that I have come to know, let me teach you the ins and outs as we develop our relationship with each other OR learn about this property on your own and don’t develop the intimate relationship with me.  In learning on your own you will discover the good and bad things that happen here, but if you don’t let me teach you it will much more difficult and dangerous.

The son heard these words, looked at the property and was delighted with the future and task laid out before him.  This was perfect!  He also realized there were two roads to travel, but he could only take one of them.  He could take the road of relationship and intimacy and tapping into the knowledge already gained by his Dad or he could take the road of going it on his own, learning the good and bad things that would or could happen both to him and to the property.

The choice at first was easy.  Of course he would listen to his Dad.  After all, his Dad came every day and talked and taught him what to do and how to do it.  His Dad openly shared his heart and wisdom about the details of and vision for the property.  And that look in his Dad’s eye of love for the property and love for his son irresistibly drew the son’s heart and attention.

But after a while the son wanted more.  He got bored, maybe, or things weren’t moving fast enough for him.  He had caught the vision for the future and wanted it now, not later.  NOW became more important than his Dad’s timetable.  He had to KNOW, for himself, everything that might happen so he could get on with it.  Worse, somehow he got the idea that his Dad was holding back, not telling him everything.  One day he found a different trail he had not seen before and he followed it.  He discovered that this led to that other road, that road of doing it on his own, of learning for himself what was right and wrong with the property and with his life.  He took that road. 

His Dad knew instantly there had been a change.  His son was not to be found when he came the next day to continue their life together.  When he did find him, his son averted his gaze and would no longer communicate openly.  The Dad’s heart sank for he knew that the vision of the glorious future together would not now happen.  This property could not tolerate the failed relationship.  So he set the son up on a different property where he had to do the work on his own and learn the good and bad things that could happen on his own, just as he so wanted to do.

Always, though, the Dad left bridges back to the road of intimate relationship.  The only requirement was that traveling across the bridge meant that the entire birth process had to be reexperienced.  Over the years and generations of progeny there was always this vision of the original property and the intimacy of relationship with the Great Grandfather.  A few would find a bridge and come back and tell about the bridge. Whole communities and organizations were built to tell each other the stories of the bridges and how to get there.  They would study and analyze and learn about the bridges and the roads to and from them.  They would study the stories about Great Grandfather and try to figure out what kind of person he was and what his ideas for the original properties might have been.  Some would get open and naked like the first son, thinking that would help them to know what it was like.  Always they encouraged each other to do good and not to do bad and studied how they could do better and worked at learning all the good things that could happen in this newer property.  But it was only the rare one that actually crossed the bridge and allowed the rebirthing to occur, actually developed the intimate relationship with Great Grandfather.  Most were content to simply gain knowledge of such because this need to learn for themselves was so deeply ingrained they could not get past it.  Somehow they could not understand that Great Grandfather was ALWAYS teaching and they were ALWAYS learning when on the other road but it was in context of relationship and not on their own.

Meanwhile, back on the original property, the Dad had another son.  This son was given the same choice but this time he made the choice in favor of intimate relationship and refused to learn on his own or demand control in the now.  He had some rough times and had to put up with some disappointments and even seeming rejection by his Dad, but he remained faithful to the choice and the relationship proved to be strong and intimate enough to bring him to Life.

Let’s choose Relationship, Rebirth and Life with its learning and growing, over Knowledge even of good things.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

Looking Deeply Within

December 13th, 2009

We did an exercise in Massage Therapy School where you sat in front of a fellow student and gazed deeply into each other’s eyes, just observing, tuned in.  You would then ask a question of the other and just listen, and watch.  You would then repeat the question, again only listening and gazing.  Finally you would repeat the question for the third time and again just listen and look into the eyes.  Upon completion, you would not comment on the other’s responses but only encourage them for allowing themselves to go deeply inside and sharing at that level.

Like many things in massage school and in the personal development world, I found that exercise challenging, frightening and yet very satisfying.

It was challenging because it was hard to sit and gaze into another’s “deepness” (the eyes are, truly, the windows to the soul) and not comment or judge or analyze (I like to do all those things, in case you haven’t figured that out about me).

It was frightening because I would make myself vulnerable, emotionally “naked”, possibly revealing thoughts, feelings, desires I had bottled up for years, not even sharing them or admitting them to myself.  And here I was, spilling them to a classmate “stranger”!

It was satisfying because this is exactly what we are on the planet to do and to be.  Father made us “naked and unashamed” to be totally and completely open with him, with ourselves and with each other, to share our deep thoughts and selves with each other in ways that would be healing and helpful for ourselves and each other.

Needless to say, the exercise brought significant insight and healing and a sense of accomplishment, but also a sense that getting this “naked” was good and healthy.

This idea of “nakedness” and healing is gaining momentum in our culture.

Recently Jay Leno interviewed Robin Williams about his latest movie, “Old Dogs,” and particularly about a scene where Mr. Williams gets nude.  He stated that the nudity was the best way to get the message across and just kind of happened when filming.  Unfortunately both he and Jay went on to make disparaging and comical remarks about nudity in general since our culture cannot handle nudity appropriately (just like I had difficulty getting “naked” with my thoughts and feelings in massage school).

Even more recently Conan O’Brien interviewed Deepak Chopra about his new book.  The whole interview was about Dr. Chopra’s ability to “read” the soul and mind of another, in this case Mr. O’Brien, and what he would recommend to bring healing.  The read on Mr. O’Brien was that he was egocentrical and of low self-esteem, needing to be pleasing to others.  Dr. Chopra’s remedy was for Mr. O’Brien to do his show naked, this removing the external need for approval and to find his approval within himself.  Again, the conversation soon equated “nude” with “sex”, a connection that our culture makes but need not since it is not necessarily connected.

[As an aside, "nude=sex" is like "snow=ski".  While skiing is done on snow, snow could also be the beauty of a mountain range in winter, sledding/sliding/snowboarding, a great way to make dessert, problems for cars without chains, the means to have a fun fight, the guts of a snowman, a ride in a sleigh, etc.  And skiing is also done on water and not just on snow.  We really need to grow up in our attitude about nudity

Back to the idea of getting open and honest with oneself, going deep within, and even perhaps getting physically nude to gain healing.  That exercise in massage school brought some healing to me.  It let me know that being open and honest, releasing old emotions and hurts, lancing an emotional “boil”, was a breath of fresh air.

The culture is beginning to figure out that taking physical clothes off can also be healing. 

There are accounts of sexually abused women who have extreme emotional issues regarding themselves and their bodies as a result, who, in a nurturing and nonsexual social nude environment, have found great healing when divesting themselves of their clothes.  It figuratively and literally allows them to regain the authority for themselves and the self esteem that was ripped from them.

Similarly, many men who have suffered with addictions to pornography and sex, when in a nurturing and nonsexual social nude environment in the company of women have found healing for their addiction.  Rather than objects of sex and control, women become real persons with real emotions and interact with these men with respect and honor.  The men, on the other hand, find themselves free to become real persons, honored and welcomed and not guilty sex perverts. 

Thought counterintuitive to our cultural training, the reality of these situations demands that we examine the possibility of offering afflicted ones, including ourselves, the option of getting spiritually, emotionally and even physically naked to help further their healing.  I have to wonder how much Tiger Woods could have found relief for his dis-ease and avoided his current socially unacceptable “nakedness”  if he had had the opportunity and encouragement to explore his deep self and needs in a healthy nude environment?

For years I have wanted to establish a residential center where people can come and find wholistic healing.  This vision has been posted on my (outdated) website, and would include food, diet instruction, assisting with and learning of gardening, supplements, counsel, massage and bodywork, and other medical helps as needed.  Now, with what I have experienced myself, and the acknowledgement of the healing power of getting truly and deeply open, it would include the encouragement to shed clothes as well as emotional and physical hurts, griefs and disappointments.

And why am I posting this, now, on my blog? Knowing that it is so countercultural and so counterintuitive? 

I honestly don’t know.  I guess it is part of my own growth as the Renegade Doc, part of my own healing, part of admitting my own passion to see people deeply and truly healed as they dare to look deeply within themselves and find the freedom and beauty and potential and healing that lies there, waiting to be brought forth.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

Renegade Interview #1 – Chuck Bartok

December 12th, 2009

As part of my talk show on Talkshoe.com, this morning was the first of a hopefully long, and getting longer, series of interviews of men and women who have decided to stand up and take the less beaten path, the Renegade path.

“Renegade” according to Webster means “traitor” and while I do not encourage becoming a traitor to governmental control I STRONGLY becoming a traitor to the mindset we are taught today and so quickly fall into of thinking everything told us is gospel truth.  Whether we are told by government, school, church or even parents and friends, let’s not just assume it is always correct.

On the interview this morning Chuck Bartok, a true Renegade at Heart, who has become my friend and mentor started off explaining how  his earliest years were spent in an environment where questioning and debating and true learning was encouraged and held in high esteem.

We should all be so fortunate, but if not it is never too late to begin today to change our mindset, change our approach, and surround ourselves with the people and materials that will encourage the Renegade within and help us become who we are on this planet to become.

Be sure to listen to the show.  It is provided here for your convenience or you can go directly to the show from this link.

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Blessings,

Dr Jon

Helpful Resources for Life and Business

December 4th, 2009

Maybe it is because Christmas is coming or maybe it’s an attraction thing, but in the last couple of days my email inbox has had links to several really excellent resources.

The first was a link to a book named

Instant Wealth – Wake up Rich by Christopher Howard.

This is a “mindset” book which will help change the negative thinking that keeps  so many of us back.  The title is the link to Christopher’s sales movie.  Though I haven’t read the book yet – just got the link myself – it is highly recommended by successful financial people.  Typical of internet marketing techniques it also comes with some nice bonuses.

The next resource was a new offering from the marketing Guru/Special One/Innovator, Mark Joyner.

Simpleology 201

is his latest in a growing line of teaching and products that are designed to help each of us organize, gain and achieve our potential.  Actually this isn’t quite ready but Mark is letting you get a little taste ahead of time.  Although you don’t need to have studied his previous work (Simpleology 101, 102, and 103) it would be well worthwhile for you to do so.  It is so worthwhile that just studying and practicing the “100″ series will take you far down the road to your personal growth and success whether you go further with the “200″ series or not.  Again, the title is the link to Mark’s new product.

By the way, if you are new to Simpleology, the basic Core Training, Simpleology 101 is free!

Another quality resource that was in my email inbox today was the link from Jay Abraham and Rich Shefren to their series currently going on called the

League of Extraordinary Minds.

Click the title to see the list of world class business mentors who are being interviewed, having their brains picked to help you build your business.  The calls are a couple of hours each, full of really helpful content and FREE!  This week was the 5th in the series.  Although the previous ones are not posted for more than a couple of days, the entire set can be purchased with transcripts for a very nominal fee.  This kind of information is really priceless.

Finally, another group that has been really helpful for me and features people who have become my “internet friends,”

Focus Society MasterMind

This is a group of real people like you and me, working out the nuts and bolts of our businesses on a daily basis.  There is a wealth of material and helpful advice posted in a forum along with videos and discussion of books and experiences.  Now, most recently, there is a new video series just starting on how to set up, start, and run your business.  This is available for a very nominal fee and has lots of built-in help and personal attention – worth more than any advice in my opinion!

Click the link to get started.  The next webinar is this Saturday.

As the Old Year winds down and you are thinking about giving gifts to others, give yourself the gift of an investment in yourself, either of time or money or both, to improve your brain and your focus and your heart.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

Napoleon Hill Applauds at the Movies

December 1st, 2009

It’s been a month since there’s been a posting here. Changed my host and it took a while to get all the files put back in order.  But with some persistence and some learning here we are again, ready to go.

Talking about persistence, my wife and I went to see the film Julie & Julia a couple of nights ago.  I call it a “Personal Development” movie.  Maybe it’s a new genre? but it could have been called “Think and Grow Rich – the Movie.”

Let’s start with Julia.

Wife. Bored. Not sitting around doing nothing, though.  Tried a couple of things but didn’t fit with her inner self. Persistent with trying to find what would fit.

Then her husband asked, “What do you really like doing?”  Desire.  So away she went.  Cooking school, even though she wasn’t welcome, was the misfit among the men and opposed by the administrator.

Goal.  Write a cookbook in a form not yet available.  Rewrite it when it is not accepted.  Keep plugging.

Sexual energy.  The love and encouragement of a spouse who, in spite of his own issues and life questions, helped keep his wife’s attention and focus on her goal.  And in spite of not being able to have children, she used that sexual/mothering instinct and applied it to the completion of her goal.

Mastermind.  Two other ladies who understood the importance of the project and applied their time and talent to help get it done.

Napoleon Hill would have been proud!

Then look at Julie.

Feeling helpless, useless, ineffectual in her job.  But she also discovered a desire.

She set the goal, a deadline, a beacon with which to find some guidance, likely considered unattainable by anyone who might have heard of it.

Persistence, again.  Daily.  Every day.  In spite of long hours and setbacks.

Mastermind, again, though not always so on board with her.  Her husband first encouraged her, then had second thoughts, yet finally came around again.  Eventually, due to the social interaction of the internet, encouragement came from strangers and readers and appreciative recipients of the energy expressed in her successes and failures.

Sexual energy, transmuted into productive action.

As a spellbinding thriller movie or even as a tearjerking heart tugger, this movie  would not qualify.  However, there lies within the story the bigger story of Goals and Persistence and Success, bringing Desire into Reality step by step.

It probably won’t replace Think and Grow Rich as a bestselling classic, but it makes a visual exclamation point to Mr. Hill’s lifetime work.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

An Officer and a Gentleman

October 25th, 2009

A couple of nights ago the family watched “An Officer and a Gentleman,” the 1982 film directed by Taylor Hackford starring Richard Gere (Zack) and Debra Winger (Paula).  My wife and I had seen it years ago but our son had not seen it.


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This film would not have been “allowed” in my earlier days because it depicted too much skin, sexual behavior and intent, and had some rough language.

However, it also depicted some themes, issues and behaviors that make it a very worthwhile film to watch and ponder.

Some of those themes included:

Father issues.
Zack’s father was the absolute worst excuse for a father anyone could imagine.  Selfish, self-destructive, philanderer, immoral, totally uncaring about his son, criticizing and minimizing him at every turn.  When Zack pulled himself out of the pit in which he was raised and actually became the officer, his Dad could not pull himself away from himself and his hedonism long enough to show up and appreciate Zack or the moment.

Paula’s real father was an officer candidate who just used the local girls for their own pleasure, then returned to their “real life,” leaving behind broken hearts and broken lives.  She was following in her mother’s footsteps, looking for love in a man’s arms, disconnected from her family and her stepfather.

Zack’s friend, Sid (David Keith) had a father who expected him to be something he wasn’t, to carry on some family tradition of military heroism at all costs.  Just another form of selfishness that looked respectable, but was even harder for the son to overcome than Zack’s obviously wicked role model.

Self awareness/Self worth issues.
Each of the officer candidates had dreams and aspirations.  It took the drill instructor, Foley (Louis Gossett, Jr.) to be the “psychologist” to point out to them their dreams were not based on reality and they were not being with themselves.  The female candidate was lacking love from her father (that issue again) and had to prove to herself and the world that she could compete and perform with the big boys.

Zack finally realized that his bid to become an officer was the only “home” he had, that being a sailor was the only thing that gave him meaning.

Tragically, Sid finally realized that his whole purpose in life was to be his brother and his father’s “wish-fulfiller,” that he had no life of his own.  When he finally decided to do something about it and be himself, he could not deal with the disappointment that he faced when his dreams didn’t work out.

Rescuing the Beauty
Both Paula and Lynette were looking for a way out of a dead-end job and a culture that had trapped their families and communities for years.  The women of the community would give themselves and their bodies to young men coming through the Navy base for 13 weeks in hopes that by trickery or luck they might get a ticket out.

The contrast between the two of them, however, has some interesting insight.  Lynette was the typical local female.  She knew what she wanted and how she wanted it.  She wanted a PILOT, a ticket OUT, not a MAN TO LOVE her.  Paula, on the other hand, was not so engaged in the process of leaving, but was focused on the MAN who paid attention to her, who at first acted like he cared about her.  Though she had to struggle with the idea, she could let go of the ticket and just interact with the man, encouraging him and challenging him to grow and be honest with himself.  Even when he spurned her, she was able to maintain a watchful and hopeful attitude.  She could literally and figuratively get on the back of his motorcycle and let him control things.

The result was just as different.  When both men came to rescue their beauty, the controlling one refused and was still caught up in her dreams and control.  The letting go one got whisked away to a new life and with the man who came to love and care for her.

I can’t help to think “Christians” in the church today relate to Yeshua more like Lynette to Sid than Paula to Zach.  Caught up in the process, looking for a ticket out, the way we want it, instead of letting go and riding on the back of the motorcycle and whatever that brings.

Character issues
Zach was a loner.  Hurt, abandoned by his mother who committed suicide, rejected by his father who taught him how to be immoral but not how to care about anything or anybody.  Now he is in a group of people who need to learn how to live as a team, how to give up their own special needs and help others make it.  From the conniving, self-absorbed overachiever, he learned to be the team player, forgoing the obstacle course record to help the female over the wall.  But it didn’t come easy.  It took being found out for what he really was and losing his friend to break through the shell of aloofness he had built to protect his battered heart.  It also took Foley getting his face and not letting him get by with his crap.

Paula was also instrumental in the transformation, not letting him get by with lying to himself about how much it no longer hurt that he was so abandoned and rejected.

The most profound line in the whole film was when he finally admitted, out loud, “I don’t want you to love me!”

Sexual issues
Men and women alike were looking for love and fulfillment, and were doing so through sexual activity, primarily.  This points out how powerful this drive, this energy is.  I postulate that sexual energy is the Life Force of which the Eastern world speaks when they use the word “Chi” or “Prana.”  This is what God had in mind when he created the planet.  ”It is not good for a man to dwell alone.”  This is why Yeshua came to suffer and die, to restore for himself a Bride and no matter how much the church tries to spiritualize it, pure and simple that is the intimacy depicted in what we call sex.

I like that the film did not hesitate to walk into the sexual issues, though it also pointed out the pitfalls that come when sexuality is handled wrongly and selfishly.

As persons and as a culture we need to grow to the point that we can use the sexual energy within each of us in productive and creative ways and not just in sexually behaving ways that get us into trouble.

One could no doubt go on and pick out even more themes, like how much Foley really cared about the candidates though could not/would not show it, or how fear paralyzes, or how goals and dreams are important.  But I have rambled long enough.  Take an evening off and revisit an older but worthwhile film experience.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

A Confession

October 22nd, 2009

I have a confession to make.

EVERYTHING I have always done in life was first run through the filter of “Right and Wrong.”

So what’s the big deal?  That’s what we are supposed to do, right?  No.

That’s another way of saying “Good and Evil” which is the problem with the world in the first place, the choice Adam made which put us in this place of choosing control, as we discussed in recent posts.

Points out that the choice to keep control is deeply ingrained in me, for sure; more than I had imagined.

So what is wrong with doing the “right” thing, you wonder?  Isn’t that what we are supposed to do?

Again, forgive me for being the Total Renegade, but NO, we are not supposed to live by “right and wrong.”

There are problems when we do this.

First, it is all about me.  As Eckhart Tolle points out in his new book, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose, the ego lives by identification and separation.  ”Right and wrong” is totally about identification.  You are either “right” or you are “wrong.”  Either way you are then separated.  If you are “right” you separate from all those that your “rightness” defines to be “wrong.”  And vice versa.

Second, it is all about control.  If I define myself to be “right” I have subscribed to some/someone’s belief system about what “right and wrong” is.  Once having made the decision, I make sure (I control my behavior and situation) that I continue to behave “rightly.”  But what if the belief system is different from someone else’s and what I say is “right” is actually “wrong” to them?

For example, I grew up in Maine in the ’50s and ’60s where swimming was done only from Memorial Day to Labor Day.  The water was too cold outside those dates (and not so warm then, either!).  For us it was no big deal to go “mixed bathing” (boys and girls together).  On the other hand, “Christians” in Maine at that time thought it was “wrong” for women to wear makeup.  Then we moved to Florida where we soon discovered that mixed bathing was tantamount to committing the unpardonable sin but wearing makeup was expected – the more the merrier.  Imagine my consternation when I came home one day and my sister met me at the door with lipstick on!  I thought she was the newest local stripper!

Third, when we live by “right and wrong” it is all about mindless following.  We throw away our thinking and our ability to react to life situations and to other people.  We identify them as either “right or wrong” by our belief system, become judgmental and critical and loving people goes out the door.

So what, then, are we supposed to throw away the rule book and just do whatever we want to do?

Yes to the rule book part, but not to the we want to part.

This is the crux of the matter and the whole point of our being here on the planet.

We have the choice to begin to live by transcendence, to live at a higher plane where behavior and thinking is determined by Someone else  for other reasons.  We have the choice to not live all about me, to not have to control everything, to be present and constantly aware to the moment.

This is what Yeshua modeled for us.  Everything he did was only done AFTER he heard (listened to) Father tell him what to do.  Everything he did was also “wrong” by the cultural standards of the time.  Healing on the sabbath, eating before washing your hands, befriending women and “sinners” (the “wrong” people) were all “wrong” and is why He was killed.

Living and acting on the basis of what Father tells us will put us at a level that will have us living by Love, not by rules, living in the moment, not by habit, living in response to life and people, not just walking over them and being critical.

Will it be easy?  No.  It will be a total letting go and releasing of everything we have known before.  For those of us who think we are “right” we have to let go our “righteousness” which is the hardest thing to do.

Will we be wicked?  No.  Father won’t tell us to do wicked things, though He may tell us to do some “wrong” things.

“Right and wrong” – just another way to spell “control” and another way NOT to enter that place of Communion with Father.  Whether you have been “right” all your life, one of the good guys, or “wrong” all your life doing all the “bad” things, it is all the same.  From the basis of Father’s heart and looking for Communion with you, both are “wicked.”

So – confession.  I have spent my life living by “right and wrong” and have been “righteously wicked.

Time to change and start living by Communion.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

Deepak Was in Town!

October 20th, 2009

Last evening I had the privilege of attending a lecture/book signing where Deepak Chopra talked about his newest book,

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He first asked if anyone in the room had a soul?

When we all replied that we did, he then asked us where it was?

Although this got a laugh from the room, he went on to point out that everything we see as physical – flowers, pictures on the screen, memories, our bodies, everything – is but vibrations of light and exists only in our consciousness, our soul.

The soul is timeless, immortal, infinite, nonlocal, TRANSCENDENT.

Then he asked what was between the “on” part of the vibration, or in the “off” part?

Answering this question led him to 5 breakthroughs each for the body and the soul, which makes up the major content of his book.  He pointed out that it is about choice and about the survival of the wisest.

He was, as always, attentive, insightful, and articulate, mixing modern quantum physics with the wisdom of the ancients.

The signed book will be a great reminder of an evening spent in the presence of a master.

Blessings,

Dr Jon

PS. If you couldn’t be in a similar gathering, be sure to get his newest book!

Restoring Communion

October 17th, 2009

Having briefly outlined the Cosmic Experiment, or perhaps better called the Cosmic Battle, into which Adam plunged our planet, and the resulting Consequences in our previous posts, we come now to the question of what does this mean in daily life, and is there a solution?

As I alluded in the last post, I don’t think any of us truly understand how completely we are overcome by this need to control.  Every fiber of our being is dedicated to it.  We have to control EVERYTHING and we find all kinds of ways to do so, at times actively and at other times passively.

Those of us who are really good at controlling tend to do so forthrightly.  Domineering men and women who have every “i” dotted and every “t” crossed are obvious in their ability and need to control.

Those of us who are not so good at being so forthright have developed a mastery of using passivity and “shrinking” to manipulate our situations and people around us.

Relationships totter and fall, crash and burn around the issues of control and passivity, be they marital, friend or business relationships.  Hint: if you are struggling in any of your relationships, ask where the control issues are.

Business, religion (yes, even the “Christian” church), politics, law, medicine, education, entertainment, the media and every other human organization are all designed to control.  In spite of all the wonderful verbage about how much these aspects of life are set up to help people, they become a monster in their own right, dictating to people what they must and must not do to maintain approval and good standing.

Last weekend I saw a church sign telling the community to “Give the best you have to God.”  That sounds wonderful and who will argue that it is not a good thing to do?  But the implication that there is a part of you that you can keep for yourself is CONTROL, pure and simple.  What if Father is telling you to give Him EVERYTHING, or NOTHING?  Are you listening, communing?

For me, the word “sin” has taken on a totally new meaning.  It is no longer some theological expression that tries to describe how wicked I am, how my behavior needs to be punished.  Rather, it is a word that describes this failure to follow Father’s heart, this falling short of living life in spirit, this failure to commune with Father and instead try to become and live and “make it” on my own, by my own terms, under my own control.

This thing, Control, to which we have given ourselves has totally and insidiously turned and Controlled us!  We are its slave, in more bondage to it than anything else we could possibly imagine.

So we have this problem.  Can this infestation, this spirit-mind-body invasion be negated?

What to do?

Do you want to do?  Do you want release? Freedom?

Many, I fear, don’t.  Being told what to do and how to live life is way too comfortable for many (most?)  Even those of us who are Renegades in some areas find other areas where it is much easier to be told; and we also like to control things that are important to us, such as our “Renegadeness!”

But there is a way to undo, overcome, restore ourselves to the place of Freedom and Communion.  It is simple, yet the hardest thing to do.

Let go.  Stop controlling.  Live in Spirit/Intuition as Adam did originally and reenter that place of Communion with Father.

Easy to say, HARD to do.

The first to do it, truly, was Yeshua, the Christ. His answer was to actually start over, to be reborn, to live life with a different set of genes, under a different rule of genetics. He lived under a genetic code of UNCONTROL.

Note how he characterized his life:

I and my Father are one.
I can do nothing unless I first see my Father doing it.
Not what I want, but what you, Father, want.

When the Enemy tempted Him to gain His Success, His Goals, attain His Purpose on His own, He refused, completely submitting to His Father.

Now it is encouraging to see and think that someone could break this “Curse” but is even more discouraging if we thought we could never do so as well.

But the GOOD NEWS is that Yeshua also pointed out that He came exactly for the purpose of Finding and Restoring what was lost, the Communion between human and Father.  It cost Him His life, but it broke the chains of Control that bind us.

Let’s live in that Freedom and return to Communion, letting go of all the Control!

But we can’t do it with our Head, our Words, our Knowledge.  We can’t do it by more ritual or practice.

We must truly LET GO everything that has made sense to us in the past.

We must LET GO all the covering up that we are so good at doing, all the protection and posturing.

We must rebirth and live under a new genetics.

We must also Listen and Commune and then Do what comes to our heart to do, submitting our moments of every day, our energy, our money, our desire, our goals, our everything to that communion.  Father communicates in spirit and we must live at that level, in spirit, to commune with Him.  The dis-order must be put back into its proper order.

It is somewhat analogous to riding on the rear seat of a motorcycle.  All you can do is hold on.  There is NO CONTROL!  Regardless of what the driver does or where the driver goes, there is nothing you can do.  Your life and safety is totally in the hands of the driver.  There can be fear, for sure, but if you trust the driver and believe that he is most concerned for your best interest and care, there is immense freedom.

Go ahead, LET GO.

Get out of the front seat and climb on back.

Love, Communion, Freedom is there for the receiving.

Blessings,

Dr Jon